So, my friend, you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back? You must really have fallen for her if you want to attempt this feat! In order to be successful in this endeavor you should strongly consider the following introspective evaluation before venturing too far down the road toward a revived relationship. First, evaluate your prior relationship with your lost lady. What were activities you enjoyed doing together and why did you enjoy them? What patterns were evident in your relationship that led toward its downfall and how did you contribute toward this disaster? After you have evaluated the prior relationship, think about what you can learn about yourself that can help you understand why your ex girlfriend might not want you back. Do you struggle with anger? Are you uncouth in social situations? If you feel stuck, ask your close friends and family for their honest evaluation. Once you have revealed all your warts, resolve to fix your own hang ups before contacting your ex again to discuss renewing your relationship. Be honest and open and admit your part in contributing to the past relationship’s failure. Identify each of your issues you discovered and tell her how you are working at them to make yourself a better person. Only by putting yourself out there in such a way will your ex girlfriend consider warming to you because you will have convinced her that you are contrite and willing to learn from past mistakes.