Marriage was great the first few years, but after Baby #1 it started going downhill. He wouldn’t help me with feedings in the middle of the night and he always got home late so he didn’t have to help around the house. It got even worse after Babies #2 and #3. He started going out more on weekends. He also stopped taking me out on dates with the excuse that we couldn’t afford a babysitter. Does anyone have some marriage relationship advice for us? We really need help. It has gotten so bad that we never speak in normal tones any more. Please HELP!