If you are going through a painful divorce, whatever you do, don’t resort to dirty divorce tricks. You may feel angry, betrayed, sad, and many other painful and difficult emotions. It is tempting to try and take out those emotions on the one who has hurt you. But no matter how much you think it will make you feel better in the short term, it is only going to hurt more in the big picture. Starting an ugly war in the courtroom is going to be much more painful than any amount of revenge could ever be worth. Do yourself a favor and keep your dignity, even when it hurts.