You’ve broken up, your world looks gloomy, and you’re sure you’ll never be happy unless you’re with your ex again.  It sounds hopeless, I know, but there is good news.  In the first place, if your relationship was worth it and you are asking yourself, “how can i get my ex back?”, there are excellent books and wonderful website which can offer excellent advice.  The other good news is that, breaking up may be hard but the right thing, after all.  Once you’ve had time to really think about your ex, if you find you actually feel relieved and are loving your freedom, be thankful for the silver lining in your cloud and begin to enjoy your life again.